There are two broad ways the problem can show up: However, and why, it is that someone's too guarded and self-protective, it's a self-defeating strategy.
It's stressful to carry around a bunch of supposedly shameful secrets and worry about what will happen if someone finds out about them.
But the game has since becoming "exhausting," a source close to the duo told August 24, 2013: Foxx and Holmes are spotted arm and arm at the 4th Annual Apollo In The Hamptons Benefit in East Hampton, New York.
Most women know they're being lied to long before they actually admit it, but they don't immediately act on their intuition.
Shy, awkward people are sometimes overly guarded and secretive.
Everything has to be on his terms as far as how close he comes to you.
Wanting to see you, be around you, hold you, know you, caress you, let you inside his heart and soul — it's all got to be on his clock, or he won't trust you and will even feel resentful.